With just a few days before my boy turns two I can’t help but think about how much my life has changed since he has been in it! He is such a blessing, not only has he shown me what it’s like to love unconditionally with my whole heart, but he has given me a whole new perspective on life, creativity and all that surrounds us, being a mother really is the most wonderful job.
Two is by far my favourite age, although, I am quite sure I have said that about every phase and milestone we have reached so far. But, oh my goodness being two is just magic! New words are being learnt every day and his imagination is alive. He seems to have grown all of a sudden, his legs are longer and those chubby thighs Iv kissed a million times are fading fast (thank goodness his little hands are still as chubby as they alway have been). It is a joy and a reward to see him grow, especially when the day leaves me feeling exhausted and wanting nothing but my own bed and a good night sleep. Each night when I tuck him into bed we talk about all the lovely things we have done – a gentle reminder to myself that we are both growing together.
I left my job as a designer in favour of being a stay at home mum. Before Arthur was born I knew I didn’t want to miss a minute of all of this and although I do often miss my old job and the creativity that came with it, I’m so glad I made this decision. For me, as a mother, I often try to find play ideas which satisfies my creative needs as much as it does Arthurs – things that will keep us both happy and content. After all, a happy mama makes for a happy baby, right? Something I have always tried to foster in him is a love of creativity and allowing the freedom to explore without putting boundaries around him (off cause I’m not talking about boundaries of safety or discipline here purely the ones that allow him to grow). Recently we played with flowers and our cameras, it is my guilty pleasure and it’s so lovely to see that it has also captured his imagination too. We laid out some blooms on a sheet of paper and took some pictures together – the poor petals got a little bruised as Arthur played with them, but, hey! Nevermind we both had a lovely time playing together. It fills me with such pride to see his curiosity grow, I feel like the luckiest mama.